Today is a sad day at Lemonade Day as we mourn the death of one of our greatest influences and most ardent supporters. Dr. Peter Benson, passed away on Sunday October 2, 2011. Dr. Benson was a tremendous inspiration to Lemonade Day. Years ago when planning Prepared 4 Life, SEARCH Institute was instrumental in forming the mission and vision for the organization. The 40 Developmental Assets serve as touchstones for our work every day. “Peter Benson was an extraordinary human being who was committed to growing great kids. The world is a less bright place today,” said Lemonade Day co-founder Michael Holthouse. Dr. Benson’s legacy will live on the millions of lives his work has enriched. Our thoughts are with his family, friends and colleagues during this time of sadness.
Yesterday a coworker turned and asked me, “Where were you on 9/11?” While every year I take time to reflect on that day, with the 10 year anniversary of 9/11 on Sunday, it is even more on my mind. There is so much chaos today – wild fires ravaging my state of Texas, devastating floods effecting so many of our Lemonade Day family, wars being fought around the world … but 10 years ago, there was a moment where it seemed the entire Earth stopped turning. As I went back to that day in my head – I was in college, living with 2 other girls in a house in Norman, OK. I turned on the TV as per my normal morning routine -and the 2nd plane flew into the tower. I just stared in disbelief at the TV very confused. I spent the remainder of the day in the School of Theater conference room preparing a mailing glued to the TV with fellow classmates and professors. – and I started to cry as I relayed that memory to my coworker.
So I began to ask, “Where were you on 9/11?”
Julie Eberly, Chief Expansion Officer
“On my way to work when the news story first hit , then at Interfaith Ministries for Greater Houston where I gathered with our Refugee Services staff, most of whom had actually come to the US as refugees. One dear friend, who was from Bosnia, had expressed through sobs that she was supposed to be safe here! It was sobering. That evening I went for a long and solemn run, and then we gathered at our church to pray.”
Esther Lee, National Project Coordinator
“I was in my 9th grade biology class, my teacher had the TV turned on (no sound) when my friends and I walked into class and we didn’t know what was going on. We saw the buildings and smoke coming out but didn’t understand. Some kids were pulled out of class and taken home and my best guy friend was worried because his parents were on a flight but he didn’t know any details so I worried for his family all day. Also remember going home and watching the news all night with my parents “
Shannon Bishop, Vice President of Education
I was running late for work and getting ready. The Today Show was on and when the second plane hit the tower, I called the office and told them I wasn’t going in. I got back in bed and stayed there, transfixed by images beyond my comprehension, chanting the mantra, “May the world be full of loving kindness. May all beings be peaceful and at ease.” I was alone and wanted to have everyone I loved in the world around me. I had to call my friends and family and make sure they were okay, and of course they were (none in NYC, or at the Pentagon or on a plane over PA). My heart broke, and broke open with sorrow for those whose loved ones died. And my heart broke for all of us – our country and the world. I knew it was a big moment … huge. Bigger than Columbine. Bigger than the Murrow building. Bigger than the Challenger. Even bigger than the JFK assassination. I knew that the death and destruction would not stop once the dust settled on the towers and the Pentagon. I couldn’t get T.S. Eliot out of my head-
This is the way the world ends
This is the way the world ends
This is the way the world ends
But it was ending with a bang, not a whimper. And we were the “hollow men, the stuffed men, forming prayers to broken stone.”
Kasey Hess, National Project Coordinator
“I was in math class and our teacher turned on the tv just in time to see the 2nd plane hit. We were only in 7th grade and I remember we didn’t quite understand what was going on, we just knew it was bad.”
JC Perez, Houston Executive Director
“I remember this day as if it was yesterday! At the time I was the Texas Regional General Manager for Radio Unica Radio Inc and I was driving into the my office at the Arena Towers. I was listening to my morning news team do their normal morning newscast and they interrupted regular programming with a special report about the first plane hitting the North tower. About 10 minutes later my cell phone rang and it was my boss whose office was in midtown Manhattan and he told me what was going on and that I had to gather all of my staff in Houston, Dallas, San Antonio, and the Valley on a national conference call as soon as possible so that we could discuss our plan as a media company and how we were going to inform our public without causing more alarm. When I got to my office I walked into the control room of the radio station and all of my staff was there and in tears. We were just informed of the second tower being hit and of the other two planes that had gone down.
It felt as if we were in a movie and everything was happening in slow motion. There was not a dry eye in the house and then I got a call from the building management telling me that we had to evacuate the building ASAP because there was a government office in our building and nobody knew if government buildings were targets across the country.
I gathered my staff in the conference room and told them they had to leave until further notice and that we would automate our station programming to run our news feed from Miami.
The eeriest part of this whole situation is that I was scheduled to be in New York that week in meetings with the top Hispanic advertising agencies and of course my business trip was cancelled. I went to New York in late October and when I arrived I felt like I was in a foreign country. My hotel was at 26th and Park Ave and was blocked off by army trucks checking each vehicle with mirrors underneath and checking for explosives. On the wall across the street from my hotel there were pictures of thousands of missing persons-this was too much for me and I remember streams of tears coming down my face. How can something like this happen in my hometown that I grew up in?
I still get shivers down my spine and teary eyed to this day talking about it. That fateful day in September changed my world and the world of my friends, family and colleagues forever.”
Debbie Nazarian, City Director
“I was driving to work that morning and heard the news on the radio. I rushed to a tv when I got there and watched with my co-workers the horrible footage of the plane flying into the tower and the towers coming down. We all watched in complete silence.”
Aimee Friend, Houston Development Associate
“I was driving to work and heard it on news radio. What I remember most about learning that the second tower had been hit is that Peter Jennings’ voice cracked and he had to pause for several moments as he was describing what he was seeing live.”
Where were you?
This week we caught up with Lemonade Day rockstar, Kasey. Here are some things I bet you didn’t know about the gal who provides support for the 31+ Lemonade Day cities … from budding graphic designer to Access know-it-all, Kasey totally geeks out over all things design and technology!
What’s your favorite flavor of ice cream? Blue Bell Dessert Trio – homemade vanilla ice cream with a swirl of fudge with chunks of cookie dough AND brownie.
How old is the oldest pair of shoes in your closet? Like 7 years old? They are amazing! They’re black and white patterned flats and I’ve worn them so much there are holes in the heels and the soles are starting to fall off but I have declared I will keep them ‘til the day that I die.
What movie do you know every line to? You’ve Got Mail!
Favorite moment while at Lemonade Day? My first Lemonade Day. It was really cool to see everything that we’d been working for come to life.
Tomorrow is National Lemonade Day. No, not the one we celebrated on May 1. Not the one where we taught 120,000 kids how to start, own and operate their own business. But tomorrow your street corners and driveways will undoubtedly we dotted with fledgling start-ups.
And we support them. We support all lemonade stands. We support every youth in America. And we agree, “Selling lemonade is not a crime.“
The lemonade stand is an iconic symbol of the American dream and the foundation of free enterprise. For many kids, operating a lemonade stand is their introduction to entrepreneurship. It teaches youth financial responsibility, the value of hard work, the joy of achieving a goal, making money, and the financial freedom to make their way in the world.
Of course government has a critical role in protecting the health of consumers. Food safety is a serious issue. Municipal health departments are essential in regulating professional food businesses that are run by adults. However, applying the strict regulations to lemonade stands is taking it too far. Let’s not let a law designed for food stores and restaurants get in the way of youth learning valuable lessons. Health inspectors should be empowered to use personal discretion when it comes to enforcing regulations on children’s lemonade stands.
Lemonade stands are childhood rites of passage. What is the risk to society if a young person sells lemonade on the corner. If health department officials shut down stands, we risk the unintended consequence of crushing the entrepreneurial spirit of the next generation. What does this teach children about government? In these times our country needs innovators and risk takers. Show your support. Buy a cup of lemonade from a young entrepreneur tomorrow.
And if your lemonade stand is open for business tomorrow, leave us a comment on where you are so we can support you!
Today is the last day of our beloved ExxonMobil CSJP Intern, Merritt Shivitz. For the past eight weeks, Merritt has been on a top secret project that we can’t tell you about but, trust us, it is super important, world-shattering stuff. So before she leaves her CIA-operative-esque post to return to normalcy we thought we would share a little about her so you get an idea of who holds this highly-regarded position.
Did you have a lemonade stand as a child?
Yes I did. I had my first and only lemonade stand at the age of 14, the summer before I was entering high school. You could probably say this was around the age where I lost my cute factor. I still wonder if that factor affected our profit margin. As a child I would always ask to have a lemonade stand, but it just didn’t seem to fit into my mom’s schedule. So I guess you could say my lemonade stand was long awaited!
What movie do you know every line to?
I know every line to Mean Girls … every line. I can’t really decide what that says about myself, or whether that is a good or bad thing.
How old is the oldest pair of shoes in your closet?
My oldest pair of shoes would definitely be my seven year old pink crocs, which I got in the sixth grade. It is humiliating to some when I wear them to class or the grocery store. I just don’t think it is time to give them up.
What items could you not go without during the day?
I hate to say it, but I could not live without my cell phone. Twitter, Facebook, bank statements, class schedules, maps and anything else you would ever need is literally in the palm of your hand. Though sometimes it is nice to get away from the phone, it is nearly impossible to go without.
If you were a candy bar, what kind would you be?
I would undoubtedly be a Twix, not only because it is my favorite candy bar, but because you get two bars in one.
What’s your favourite memory of your time at Lemonade Day?
My favorite memory is when we played extreme office makeover. No one would’ve ever guessed how handy and innovative a group of five girls can be.
We wish Merritt the best of luck in her future. Of course, with the friends she’s made these past two months, how can she not be successful?
Before I turned all the remaining lights out I had to tell you, thank you.
What an amazing experience today was for me… to sponsor 4 young girls, ages 10-15 and watch them flourish as they invited and convinced various groups of park goers to taste and buy a glass of their “special’ lemonade.
The girls chose as their charity Texas Children’s Hospital and toward the end of the day a very skinny and shy young boy on his bike with his Mom…just happened to stop by and ask us what and who we were. As if anything, just happens…anyway, this very special young man who was soft spoken pulled his bike up right to our stand- as his mother hesitated- so tangible was her discomfort we all could sense it and wondered why. When he looked closer at our sign and heard about the reason we were selling lemonade and what charity- he told his mom firmly that he wanted to buy a glass from us. As we poured one for him the girls also gave one to his mother who was a bit stand offish and would not engage other than to say, thank you for the lemonade. After he told us his story we realized why…He told us that he, in fact, was waiting for a donor in order to have a heart transplant as soon as possible to take place at Texas Children’s Hospital.
Well, this squarely brought home to our young entrepreneurs the message of hard work and charity in a way that NONE of us will ever forget. The girls are going to give their donation to Texas Children’s Hospital in his name.
I know that we will tell this story many more times and with gratitude for a day that changed all our lives forever.
Lemonade Day was a day that we will never forget.
We recently got to sit down with these girls and talk to them … there’s even a song